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Many people struggle financially online. But, with a little hard work and perseverance, you can build a super successful Internet business.
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Zhao respectively by individual name for bank credit card 8 Zhang,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], overdraft arrears of nearly 80000 yuan. Then Zhao and others illegally obtained another identity information,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], bank credit card,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], cash and consumption, overdraft 1 yuan. Recently after hearing, the district court in accordance with the crime of credit card fraud,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], sentenced to 3 years in prison for Zhao set.
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, the judge also proposes some relevant suggestions: first, to protect the personal information, especially the identification card. But don't leave your personal information in the network. Secondly, in applying for a credit card to the bank counter or proposed for formal marketing agency authorized by banks. It is best not to help others to complete the business or just for the sake of small gifts for life is not necessary credit card, to avoid "sleep cards",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to provide opportunities for criminals to defraud. Reporter Chen Tongtong correspondent Zhang Hua Deng Hui
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Make a Name for Yourself: Eight Steps Every Woman Needs to Create a Personal Brand Strategy for Success by Robin Fisher Roffer.
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Really give credit where it's due. You've paid your dues, make sure you know what your skills are so you can articulate them. This is very useful in interviews or when you are networking with others who don't know you and what you can do. Also include on your list any unique skills and knowledge you have acquired simply by surviving as a sexual minority in a sometimes hostile, or indifferent, workplace and society. Yes - corporations now understand the value of diverse viewpoints in the planning, producing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], selling and servicing processes, and so should you!
My father always told me, 'find a job you love and you'll never have to work a day in your life'. - Jim Fox
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The foundation for locating career opportunities that meet your preferences and requirements lies in defining yourself, or in determining what sets you apart in the marketplace. I call this creating your own "Unique Selling Proposition" (USP). You're probably familiar with the USP concept from advertising:
Once your have a clear, concise statement, practice it until it's second nature. Then, see if you can expand it into a few sentences to use what is called an "elevator speech." Run your USP elevator speech past your support team and get feedback. If you're a business owner, use your USP on all your marketing materials. Remember, no one else can offer exactly what you do; so use this to your advantage! Also, keep in mind that you will continue to refine these statements as time passes and you gain new experiences and skills.
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Never before have you, as a lesbian, had the workplace protections available in many states and organizations, that you have today. But being open about your personal life on the job might still feel too big a risk for you to take, given an employer's market. And, it's hard to stop "hiding" when you've been doing so for years, even if you keep hearing about the career, health, and self esteem benefits of "coming out."
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Consider every mistake you've ever made and experiences that didn't work for you, including any negative or traumatic personal and/or work-related experiences. Now, choose to see the "diamond in the rough." List the character strengths, wisdom, and skill(s) you've gained from any experience that, on the surface, appeared embarrassing, worthless or in any other way "bad" (examples of experiences could include events such as: getting fired from your last job, a negative performance evaluation, financial difficulties, loss/grief, disability/illness, etc.).
So, what is your USP? Do you know what is uniquely attractive about you in the eyes of the marketplace? You must get clear on your own USP to be able to identify and maximize 'compatible' opportunities when they come your way.
Are you rolling your eyes? Naive, or delusional, you say? I say this is the minimum you should expect, given that you probably spend at least one third of your life doing work or career-related activities. After all, this is your life, right? Ah, the costs of progress. Questions such as these are "coming out of the closet" like never before, started, I suspect, by those notorious baby boomers, that first generation well enough off to entertain such thoughts. If you have any doubts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ask the two questions above to anyone born prior to 1950 and listen to their reaction: "What do you mean 'love your job'/you want a say in how your job is done? How about just making sure you have a job, food on the table and a roof over your head?"
- gives me the feelings and experiences I most want to have?
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Your USP can be summed up in short, concise statements of what makes you different, special,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], best. Better yet, you know (and recall) a great USP when you see or hear it because it:
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What are you truly passionate about? Do you really know? Have you ever really thought about it? What's so important about this passion stuff? When you engage in activities that are 'an expression of you,' work feels more like play, and you are freed up to be creative and resourceful in "getting the job done." In addition, expressing your passion for the particular job or position you're applying for (or creating) is very appealing to employers or clients. They will pick up on your enthusiasm, and sense that you will honestly and strongly commit to helping them solve their concerns or problems.
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The bottom line is this: you have special concerns your parents couldn't have conceived of, if it's your goal to thrive (not just survive) in today's work environment. The world's economy is going through dramatic change, brought on by the interaction of forces such as globalization, rapid technological change, rising costs and severe budget deficits, security concerns (particularly since September 11, 2001) and higher-than-ever performance expectations for quality and quantity of work, accountability/ethical requirements, etc.
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Because of your socialization, you may not be as attuned to this as the men you know. You may believe nurturing or taking care of others is your talent, but perhaps you stop there. In reality, it is likely that you have a much broader range of abilities such as working with numbers, writing well, performing medical research, making other people laugh, or remodeling cars, to name just a few. Perhaps you didn't have the support you needed growing up to really discover, develop, and value these traits/talents. But, it's never too late to get the support you need to do so!
2. Clarify Your USP - List the three to five major themes that emerge as you evaluate all of the information you've gathered. Then, write a clear and concise statement incorporating the themes.
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1. Know yourself - Answer the following questions as thoughtfully as you can. Designate a special notebook or journal for jotting down your thoughts:
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As you reflect upon the various job experiences you've had, what are your greatest accomplishments? What did you really enjoy about that last assignment? Be especially alert for discovering potential interests, strengths, contacts, etc. you hadn't realized when assessing why you were so successful in these different jobs. Consider how your success was encouraged or supported by the environment you were in, why it was so helpful as well as what you did that worked.
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As an example, here is my current elevator speech and several of my USP statements:
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Quzhou local environmental protection volunteers Dong Zheng told reporters, two days before he had once, see everywhere is the egret chicks body and broken eggs: "as the tree was cut down, the nest will all fall down."
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Laughter has so many healthy benefits for our body, soul, and spirit, so why do we stay stressed so often? Laughter is a stress buster!
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“Birmingham, Alabama,” I responded with a smile.
“Who will help you on the plane, pick up your luggage once we arrive in Birmingham, and get you to your hotel?” I asked.
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Bill shared with me that his faith, family, and friends were responsible for his positive attitude after he lost his sight. Of course, I helped him get to his destination. His positive attitude was the fire that lit our flame of friendship.
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To be female, fabulous, and 50, I will make the most of my best. I like who I have become. I am president of my own life. I feel a spirit of aliveness within myself! I say yes to life.
Bill and I talked nonstop for 30 minutes, until it was time to board the plane. I learned that Bill had been in the Special Forces and was blinded in the war. His beautiful wife became too ill to travel with him on this trip. With Bill’s positive attitude and his will to spend time with his Special Forces buddies he made the decision to travel alone.
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On my journey beyond youth, I will stay young at heart by living the moment, laughing, and embracing a positive attitude. My goal is to be in the moments of my life, to experience, enjoy, and savor the magic as the minutes tick by. Each day is a precious jewel. If I have the courage to make each day a pearl, at the end of my life I will have a string of pearls.
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Whether you are looking for a job, firmly ensconced in one, or in the midst of starting your own business, improving the sound of your voice is something you might consider especially if the sound of your voice on recording equipment leaves much to be desired.
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This strength, by the way, should not be shown through anger and antagonism towards this wounded part … as it will interpret this as further validation of its unsafety and rejection. By being angry or oppositional, we’re only showing that we’re threatened, not strong. No, it needs to see and feel our composure and strength. In response to this young, fearful voice, we need to be the calm, grown-up voice.
DON’T ARGUE. DEMONSTRATE SAFETY. …
Certainly, we know now that we are no longer infants or children. But because these “traumas” occurred during our most basic developmental years – when our minds were literally "looking" for patterns and associations to make sense of ourselves and our world – these fear associations can become almost instinctual and unconscious … and often fixed in time.
But while this survival mechanism works well in keeping us from real and fundamental dangers (e.g., we pull back from the hot stove, having associated the action with the physical pain), it does not serve us when it holds us back from “dangers” we are intended to outgrow.
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And this confident, reassuring voice must be ours. Why? Because by demonstrating our strength, we prove to this wounded part that we (and it) are not in danger. We disarm the “survival mechanism” by showing that we’ve outgrown this danger, that we survived this “trauma” and are strong enough to face any further challenge.
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Ultimately,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], whether it comes from within or without, the voice of fear and criticism can assert its power only where we have surrendered our own. It can and will speak only where we do not. So do not see the “inner critic” as a nuisance or an actual enemy, something to war with or be afraid of. See it instead as an internal signal calling you to a place where you need to bring more of your balance, healing, and strength – more of who you truly are.
As we see this “critical voice” for what it is and begin to disempower it, our true voice becomes ever clearer and louder. How do we distinguish our true voice? Our true voice will never speak to us in fear and judgment. Our true voice will never be separate from us, speaking against us. Our true voice will speak from our strength. It will speak to us calmly, compassionately, and patiently … knowing that we are always enough.
As mentioned at the outset of this discussion, the “inner critic” seems persuasive in large part because it speaks with our own voice. In fact, it does not. Our “inner critic” speaks from a place and time in our past when we felt like we were not enough. It is not a whole or true voice. And, if anything, it is calling to us for our true voice.
So, from what danger is the voice trying to protect us? Pain, disappointment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], rejection, fear. Or,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], more precisely, the "memory" of these.
So how do we deal with this offensive/defensive inner voice?
The answer to this question can be found in what this “inner critic” does … or aims to do. By criticizing us, this voice seeks to constrain us. By being unrelenting in this criticism, it seeks to keep us always worried, always on our guard. It undermines our belief in ourselves and our life so we will not act, not risk, not explore, not believe. It is a constricting voice, pulling us back. It is a voice of fear.
OUR ‘CRITICAL VOICE’ WANTS CONTROL. IT WANTS TO FIGHT. …
Not surprisingly then, arguing with the “inner critic” does little. Why? Because it isn’t really a rational voice. It’s not trying to reason with us. In fact, it wants to engage us. It wants to keep our attention because by distracting and engaging us, it gains control. By attacking and “scaring” us, it keeps the upper hand and holds us back.
YOUR TRUE VOICE …
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In our childhood, any sense of separation (from parents or other comforting things) triggered real and visceral panic; and, any sense of disapproval might be interpreted as complete rejection. Later,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in our adolescence, disappointments that would now seem minor felt then like our world was collapsing.
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So, when we do – or even consider doing – something that triggers this old association with danger (or disappointment, rejection, loss, etc.), this wounded part awakens, panics, and starts to vocalize. It will “play back” the original trauma to prevent us from re-injury.
Indeed, the painful experiences our minds record most vividly are from our earliest years: our infancy, our childhood, even our teens. During these early formative years, we were understandably overwhelmed by the world. In our infancy, we were completely dependent; and, as such, we justly interpreted the slightest physical or emotional discomfort as a very threat to our existence.
Since this voice is essentially that of the “insecure child,” our best response is to be the calm, strong parent. Again,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this “critical voice” is not a reasoning voice. It may speak with our familiar adult voice, but it’s really just a scared, distressed child. And like an actual insecure child, this young, wounded part is looking for calm, confident reassurance.
To the extent that the original trauma involved personal rejection and impacted our early “sense of self,” the voice will actually play the role of the perceived attacker: anything to control and safeguard this wounded place and keep it from further outside attack. In other words, our inner voice will actually attack us – picking at any insecurity, any chink in our armor – in order to drive up our own defenses. And so the stream of fear and invective sounds off within us.
So while we may now be grown up, this part of our mind, through the inner critic, is “protecting” us as though we were still children and in actual danger. In effect, this “inner critic” is speaking from the past and as though these early “traumas” existed in present time. This “inner critic” is a very young voice, a wounded voice.
YES, THE FEAR CAN ‘FEEL’ REAL …
Often there is also an emotional “charge” to the original trauma, which the wounded part remembers and holds on to (being frozen in time). So, as we hear the fearful voice,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we may also feel our adrenaline pump, our voices tremble, our hearts sink, our anger swell – all those responses that accompanied the original experience. Again, our body and mind are very good at memorizing, associating, and later recalling these “survival” reactions.
But just like our “inner critic,” these emotional-physical responses are speaking to us from the past. And we begin to disempower these wounded patterns as soon as we recognize this – as soon as we identify these “alarms” as mere echoes and not as actual signals of present danger. As convincing as these emotions may feel, by consciously acknowledging them as past rather than “reacting” to them as real and present, these patterns – like the voice of our “inner critic” – will begin to fade.
IN CONCLUSION …
When such a voice comes from outside, it is seeking to gain power over us. When the fearful voice comes from inside us, it is in large part a survival mechanism.
‘FROZEN’ IN THE PAST …
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The binaural beat was discovered in 1839 by a German scholar and Professor at University of Berlin called Heinrich Dove. Dove explained the theory in which he was combining the sounds in binaural rhythm to bring about brainwave entrainment treatment. Nonetheless,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this theory was not extensively put into use until 1973 when an American magazine published this theory. Several psychologists used the tests that were carried out by Dove and the amazing thing was that they found some substance in it and thereby started using these sound waves healing strategies to offer solutions to people with mental problems.
Brainwave entrainment is one of the ways that is currently being used for treating different mental conditions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The waves are generated through combination of different sounds that are mastered by professionals,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Sounds are combined in a unique way that is customized to suit different kinds of clients,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. There are online treatment therapies that are available. Online therapists have combined the sounds and archived them for clients to download for their own use. These downloads use binaural beats to relax the brains. The relaxing of the brain is then used to maintain the mental stability of the person concerned.
The major advantage of this treatment procedure is that it has no side effects. It can be used for long periods without any side effects. It is also a cheap treatment method since all you require is a record player and the same music. However, it is important to consult your doctor on the recommended duration that you should use sound healing treatment if you have other medical conditions.
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The brainwave entrainment treatment strategy appears to many people as a scam. Nonetheless,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], this is a proven treatment strategy. Comprehensive research has already been done to prove the theory workable. Scientific strategies have been used to prove that the binaural beats enhance sound healing effect through faster transformation of brainwaves from one frequency to the other to bring about relaxation.
Brainwave entrainment is not recommended for people who have medical conditions. It is important for these kinds of patients to make a visit to their physicians before they start using these treatment methods. They are risky for people who have seizure problems but the severity of the problem can be determined by a doctor before they approve the medical strategy. Due to the high ability of relaxing the brains,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], avoid this medical strategy when you are driving or operating machinery since you are likely to cause injury as a result of relaxed brain function.
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Do you really want to change something today? There is a very simple task you can introduce to your daily routine; make a list of 100 favorite activities, there are no limits except: it must be healthy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], legal, and safe. What can it be? As I mentioned it can be walking with the dog,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], meeting friends, jogging, reading, dancing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], singing, cooking and everything else what makes you happy. More physical activity is involve more energetic you will feel, more good it will bring to others more rewarding it will be. So, go ahead, make your list of minimum of 100 activities and promise yourself to do at least one every day. After three weeks it will become a new helthy and exciting habit, you happiness will flourish, your friends will notice and you will have a tool to conquer negative feeling.
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1. Increase support of your immunity system by eating more turnips, cauliflower and pears. All of these foods also support the energy of large intestine and lung meridians.
Frequent walks, dance, or working out at the gym can also help-just make sure not to overdo, or you will end up depleting your energy instead of building energy.
So, there is a strong correlation between feeling grief and an increased tendency to experience viral and bacterial infections.
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The lung and large intestine meridians are often associated with the emotions of sadness and grief,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and our immunity system. See additional resources for more information about these meridian pathways.
It can be helpful to engage in activities that you might ordinarily deny yourself-pampering activities such as a facial, massage, relaxation session, extra time with family or friends, or just quiet time by yourself.
2. Increase vitamin C to support the immunity naturally with extra servings of fruits such as tangerines or oranges, pineapples,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], cherries, and fresh carrot juice.
These three strategies can help you find balance during moments of loss or grief.
To energetically release anger, tap the liver which is right under the right rib cage and exhale deeply while saying the sound "shuuuuuu" (pronounced as "shoe").
By brushing and massaging these meridians, you can release the energetic charge of grief and sadness and bring balance to your immunity system.
Acupressure and medical qi gong,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with a focus on grief support, can empower you to feel and process your sadness and grief, and to balance the biochemical changes that occur when we feel strong emotions.
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Qi gong (which you can perform lying down if you are tired) and tai chi, begin to liberate the body from the heavier emotional states and help to remind yourself that forward movement is possible.
Inhale slowly for a count of 9 and imagine golden light and love filling the lungs.
How we nurture ourselves and process feelings greatly impacts our physical and mental wellness.
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Make certain to engage in qi gong deep breathing as often our breathing becomes shallow when we are grieving.
Diet can help support the body when we are faced with loss in our lives.
Also, take some time to release anger. It's natural to feel anger when we experience loss.
(1) Support the Energy of the Body: Lungs, Large Intestine and Liver Energy
We all face tragedies in our lives, evoking grief, sadness and despair. This is a natural part of life.
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Often times when we are grieving, our immunity level may drop, serotonin levels may diminish and melatonin may also be disrupted. This can result in sleep disturbances and increased sadness.
Exhale slowly for a count of 9 and imagine gray grief leaving the lungs.
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Nourishing ourselves helps to release and heal grief.
The energy of grief and sadness can make us feel heavy and physically sluggish, as if we cannot move.
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Established to promote equal exchanges between partners,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the reciprocity rule demands that a gift or favor is to be reciprocated with a similar gift or favor. Unfortunately, this rule can easily be exploited for profit by unscrupulous individuals. People can easily be manipulated into an unfair exchange and agree to returning a favor that is substantially larger than the obligating first favor.
The results also suggested that the larger the initial request, the more effective the compliance technique, since there is more room available for making concessions. The tactic backfires, however, if the first request is viewed as unreasonable, since retreats from unrealistic initial requests are not considered as genuine concessions, and subsequently are not reciprocated.
Reciprocal Concessions
Why do small gifts or favors from others often stimulate larger return gifts or favors? The answer to this question is simple: because we typically feel uncomfortable when we are indebted to others, and we feel shame if we do not make a reasonable attempt to reciprocate.
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The "Rejection-Then-Retreat" Technique
Members in society are expected to work together toward the achievement of common goals. Conventions, like mutual concession, are put in place to promote compromise whenever incompatible desires exist. The obligation to reciprocate a concession encourages socially desirable arrangements by ensuring that individuals who initiate such arrangements are not exploited. If we weren’t obligated to reciprocate a concession, then there would be no incentive to begin the compromise process.
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Studies have shown that the reciprocity rule is so powerful that we are more likely to comply with requests from people we might ordinarily dislike (unwelcome salespeople, disagreeable acquaintances, representatives of unpopular organizations) if they merely do us a small favor prior to making their requests.
The straightforward way to employ the reciprocity rule is to provide someone with a gift or favor and then ask for one in return. The rule dictates that we repay gifts and favors we have received.
When people concede in response to an initial concession made by someone attempting to elicit compliance to a request, they tend to feel both responsible and satisfied with the arrangement that has been made. These feelings of responsibility and satisfaction motivate individuals to engage in further agreements. In other words, once an individual has agreed to do something,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he/she is likely to continue to agree to do other things.
Reciprocal arrangements are extremely vital for the functioning of our social systems. We are conditioned from birth to feel discomfort when we owe something to someone. If we didn’t feel this way, and we did not feel the need to return gifts and favors, then reciprocal relationships and exchanges would stop dead in their tracks. Since this is not in the best interest of society, we are trained to feel beholden to benefactors. In addition, individuals who do not conform to the dictates of the reciprocity rule are usually disliked by their social groups.
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Thus, we are often willing to return a larger favor than we received simply to relieve ourselves of this psychological burden of debt and to avoid being called a “moocher,” “welsher,” or “ingrate.”
Strangely enough, research indicates that these types of negative reactions are less likely to occur when the rejection-then-retreat technique is used. The evidence suggests that this compliance strategy gets people to agree to a desired request, to carry out the request, AND surprisingly to agree to additional requests. So why are people who are duped into compliance so willing to continue to comply?
One of the consequences of the rule of reciprocation is the feeling of obligation to make a concession to someone who has made a concession to us. Buy you might argue, “There was no concession on the part of the Girl Scout to begin with!”
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It’s no wonder, then, that we typically avoid asking for a needed favor if we are not in a position to repay it in the future. And it’s totally understandable why we often decline certain gifts or favors if we know we will feel uncomfortable accepting them (e.g., an expensive gift, a drink from a stranger at a bar).
The findings from these experiments indicated that compliance to a request is more likely if the requester's retreat from a larger to smaller favor appear to be a concession. In other words, the second request can be one that is objectively large,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as long as it is smaller than the first request.
Since it appears that the rule for reciprocation governs the compromise process,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], an initial concession can be used as part of a “rejection-then-retreat” technique that can be highly successful in eliciting compliance.
There is nothing inherently wrong with the reciprocity rule; it serves a valuable purpose in society. The problem arises when people and organizations try to exploit it and take advantage of unwary individuals.
These studies underscore an important aspect of this rule -- anyone can trigger a feeling of indebtedness by doing us an uninvited favor. The rule of reciprocation does not require us to ask for anything we have received in order for us to feel obligated to repay. We might feel a stronger sense of obligation to return a favor we have requested, but we still feel indebted to people who give us things we do not ask for. How many times have you felt the twinge of obligation whenever you receive a “gift” from a nonprofit organization asking for a contribution?
Unfair Exchanges
The process of socialization deeply implants within us a sense of obligation to repay anything that is given to us. Since we understand the social sanctions for violating this rule,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we will do everything in our power always to abide by it and to take responsibility for our indebtedness.
At this point you might be thinking that there must be a drawback to using the rejection-then-retreat technique. Don’t people resent being manipulated into compliance? Because of this resentment, wouldn’t people refuse to live up to any verbal agreement? And if they actually did follow through with what they originally agreed to, wouldn’t people simply refuse to deal with the manipulative requester again out of distrust?
The rule of reciprocation is so pervasive in our society that we rarely give it a second thought. The tactics of reciprocity appear at every level in politics. Its influence is evident whenever “free” products or services are being offered to consumers. And this rule governs many interpersonal situations that do not involve politics,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], money, or commercial exchange (e.g., favors, gifts, invitations).
If you ever felt inclined to return a favor, then you have experienced the power of the “rule of reciprocation.” This rule states that we should make every attempt to repay, in kind, anyone who gives us something.
Actually, the Girl Scout’s request that you buy the chocolate bar was a bone fide concession because it was presented as a retreat from the request to buy the ten-dollar raffle ticket. The reciprocation rule requires that one concession be reciprocated with another concession. The tendency to reciprocate a concession may not be so strong as to work in all situations with all people, but we all feel the tug of reciprocal concession nevertheless.
If you use gifts as sales devices intended to exploit the public, alert consumers will see you as a wolf in sheep’s clothing and will most likely decline your offer without even feeling a tug from the reciprocity rule. As Dr. Cialdini states, “A favor rightly follows a favor – not a piece of sales strategy.”
The experimental evidence also indicates that agreements that have come about through concessions (i.e., during negotiations) are quite satisfying. When concessions are used to bring about compliance, people are likely to feel satisfied with the final arrangements of a deal. It stands to reason that this feeling of satisfaction increases the chances of individuals agreeing to other such arrangements in the future.
The First Principle of Influence: Reciprocation
Given the natural cultural forces favoring reciprocation arrangements in our societies, there is not only an obligation to repay, but also an obligation to receive. This obligation to receive,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which intrinsically serves a social purpose, makes the reciprocity rule easy to exploit because such an obligation essentially eliminates our ability to choose whom we wish to be indebted to.
A number of psychological experiments have been designed to determine if the rejection-then-retreat technique could be used with genuinely sizable requests,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The question posed by these experiments was: “Does the smaller request to which a requester retreats have to be a small request for the technique to work effectively,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]?”
We already know that the reciprocity rule states that a concession will probably stimulate a return concession, as long as the requester’s initial request is not unreasonable or is considered a manipulative ploy. But we haven’t examined other findings unearthed by research studies, which show that there are two positive by-products of the act of concession.
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Psychological experiments clearly have demonstrated that a requester’s concessions during negotiations causes individuals to feel responsible for “dictating” the final agreement. It’s understandable, then, that people will be more likely to follow through with an agreement if they feel responsible for the terms of the contract.
Understanding the principle of reciprocation can be helpful in developing highly successful marketing campaigns, as long as your offers for products and services are honest and not the initial steps in attempts at exploitation.
If you play by the social rules of the reciprocation game, you are participating fairly in the “honored network of obligation” that benefits society. However, if your initial favors (or gifts) are marketing and sales tricks designed specifically to obtain compliance with a larger return favor, keep in mind that the rule states that favors are to be met with favors.
Cultural anthropologists have determined that this rule, which has been established in all societies, has a powerful social purpose. The reciprocity rule promotes the development of reciprocal relationships because it encourages individuals to initiate an exchange without the fear of loss. In other words,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if you give something (for example, food, energy, or care) to someone, this rule gives you confidence that you will be repaid in kind at some point in the future.
More often than not, we yield to the social pressures of the deeply ingrained reciprocity rule and feel obligated to accept an uninvited gift or favor and then feel indebted to the donor.
One way of increasing your chances of getting someone to say “yes” to a request is to initially ask for more than you want. After the larger request is rejected, you “retreat” by making a smaller request, one that you were interested in to begin with. If your requests are structured skillfully, your second request would be viewed as a concession. The reciprocity rule should kick in at this point and the individual should respond with a concession, which would probably be compliance with your second (smaller) request.
There is a subtle, indirect route, however, to achieve the same results. Let’s say that a Girl Scout asked you to buy a raffle ticket for ten dollars but you declined because you didn’t want to spend that much money. Then suppose you were asked to buy a chocolate bar for two dollars. It’s highly likely that you would buy the chocolate bar, even if you didn’t like chocolate. Why would you do that?
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As a parent, for me this is very alarming. These are real issues that we have to address but what can we do? What kind of help is there for overcoming low self esteem? The number one thing we can do is to make sure they know we love them and we provide them with affection. If they know we love them, then they will trust us and will be more likely to talk to us when a difficult situation in their like arise. As part of raising your children, you must instill 2 traits in your children. Make sure your children have people skills. People skills are not thought in school. They make sure your children know how to count, read and write. Look around you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], may be your friends,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], people at work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who appear to be more successful in their life. Successful can be at work or their marriage. Is it Joe, in the corner who does not talk to anyone or Mary who can start a conversation with anyone at anytime. Is Brandi at work who always eats alone or Frank who is always helping and praising others? The answer is always the more outgoing person who is friendly and nice to everyone. By the way, when I say outgoing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I don’t mean the person next to you at work that just can’t shut up. I mean the person that can have conversation with anyone, that person.
If you are like every parent out there, you constantly worry about your children every day. When they are babies,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you worry they are going to fall and get hurt. When they start school,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], are they going fit in, are they going to make friends, are they going to like school? They get to the age of 9 or 10 now you worry if they are fitting at school. They become a teenager and now the real worries start with them going out with friends, on a date and more. Drugs and alcohol are everywhere and you hope you did a good job raising them and they will make the right decision. One thing we don’t seem to worry about until a major situation is if our teenagers are suffering from Low Self Esteem.
The second item is character. Help your son or daughter build their character. Make them make the hard choices. Don’t let them get away with the occasional lying or unacceptable behavior. Make them understand in a positive way that there are consequences for not behaving correctly in today’s society and they will result in some sort of negative ways for them. Hold them accountable just like you think the society will hold them accountable so they are ready when they become an adult.
As parents,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we are so busy working 40-50 hours a week sometimes more that we don’t always see the signs. Low self esteem among teenagers is huge and very troubling. Here’s a few statistics that alarmed me extremely.
Girls with low self esteem are more likely to have sex at a young age. 50% of girls interviewed said they had sex by the time in they were in 9th grade some even earlier. The good stat is that 75% of girls of aged 9 say they like the way they look. That number drastically goes down to 56% by the age of 12 and 13. BY the age of nine, 50% of girls say they have been on a diet or are on a diet. Do you know that 7 million girls and women have an eating disorder and that 20% of women are bulimic in America? 33% of girls age 9-12 think they are overweight and that 60% of those same girls are on a diet. 57% of girls are fasting, on a diet or are smoking in order to lose weight. What is the result? Well,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 50%-70% of girls with normal weight think they are overweight. They are also many other statistics on girls and teenagers who are suffering of low self esteem using drugs and alcohol. You can read more at
I would like to tell you it is easy but the reality is that if it was easy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they would not be 7 million girls out there suffering of low self esteem. Overcoming your girl teenager low self esteem is a very serious concern that all parents should have. Look for the low self esteem signs and address it. Do not ignore it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it will most likely not go away unless they get the help they need. There are some resources you can get that will help you deal with overcoming your teenager low self esteem. To see some of those resources, visit
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